Can't help on the building regs as I live in Spain. But your local library might be a good source of info as well.
Waterproof monitors are available but touch screen ones for domestic applications may be hard to find. I know you can get industrial ones. As they ae used on CNC milling machines, and have to be sealed against cutting oil, and I have seen ones available for marine applications, but like most things add the words marine environment and the price tag doubles or tripples.
There is a thread on here about waterproof TVs http://www.automatedhome.co.uk/vbull...read.php?t=825
Also try here
http://www.porta.co.uk/maintv.html
With regards to downlighters there are also special fire proof hoods that can be used instead of a dry wall box.
Have alook here
http://www.lighting-direct.co.uk/dow...ods-c-313.html
Hope this helps you.