Infact what I would say is that if you were controlling this via the normal Terminal 4. Then DON'T connect the terminal 7-8. It works perfectly as you want it. Because your boiler trigger is still expected on 4. I was using this hybrid setup for a while before I figured out the importance of the documented 7-8 link. But that was required only because I wanted my OT to fire the boiler too, not just vary the target flow temperature.
p.s. The Vaillant doesn't understand OT. So I think the right way to think about this is that the Vaillant eBUS can work alongside normal 230V boiler triggers. And I can see why it's designed that way. Because eBUS is a lot more than just providing boiler triggers.