From my understanding, everything talks to the controller.
It is the controller that decides what are the relevant actions based from the data it receives.
The simple relay is simple enough, you "just" need to get it connected to the boiler so it fires it up.
Testing it is equally simple from the evohome, with a single zone, just request a high temperature, and it should fire up.
This would allow you to test the Evohome<>BDR91 connection and the BDR91<>Boiler connection.
Side note: You can also Manually Overide the BDR91 status, by pushing its button (short push). Even if I've never tested it, it should be possible. This would allow you to manually fire-up the boiler and therefore test the BDR91<>Boiler connection
