I think there's a lot of scaremongering about Megaflow and other similar tanks.
IF the tank was being heated by an immersion heater, and IF there wasn't a pressure relief valve then yes, it could become a big wet bomb.
However.... When heated via a loop of water from your boiler it's never going to get over 80 degrees or so. The only risk is a slight one of scalding from any hot taps that take a direct feed.
As for trying to fit the sensor in, the official Evohome sensor is quite bulky. But you can buy 10k NTC thermistors which are much smaller. I use one of these:
https://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/122775246996 - works perfectly, and easy to slide into a pocket alongside any existing sensors.