Have you really connected the 230V supply into the T1 terminal on the boiler? I do not know about the 35Cdi boiler but my Worcester GB162 operates on 24V. I have a relay that closes the contacts between T1 and T2 on your diagram to switch the boiler. The boiler has a permanent 230V supply, and through a transformer provides its own 24V power supply for its control systems. Closing the 24V contacts between T1 and T2 makes the boiler fire. It should not have 230V anywhere near those terminals.
Forgive me if your boiler is completely different, but that hand-drawn link from the 230V supply to your terminal T1 just looks wrong.