Yes I agree that I don't really need to control terminal 4. Thinking about it, as I'm driving the CH and HW inputs (using relays) to my Y-plan box, then in reality the demand to the boiler will always be on. When I'm heating HW then my TPI is just controlling the diverter valve to modulate the CH rather than switching the boiler itself.
I'm keen to keep it connected that way so that I have some flexibility i.e. I can swap out the Opentherm control in software and revert to TPI if I want to.
On a related note - do you happen to know what happens when using the VR33 if you stop sending Opentherm messages to it i.e. don't maintain the minimum 1 second repeat? Does it fall back to full heat or off?